Valerie Lauer, left, and Deb Lauer, of Meadville, Pa., wife and mother (respectively) of Army Spc. Timothy Lauer, react during a memorial ceremony in Harrisburg, Pa., Saturday, May 12, 2007, honoring soldiers who have died from the war in Iraq. Lauer, 25, of Saegertown, Pa., died Oct. 14, 2006, after... (Associated Press)